It’s not a bad word

Posted on 28 December 2004 @ 21:47 in Opinion

What’s not a bad word?

Are you ready for it?

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Oy, Chet, not writing Chinese here. Duh …

Here it is again …

BITCH

To all those people who think they insult us when they call us bitches, think again.

It’s not an insult.

It’s a compliment.

Here’s why and when we get called bitches.

When I stand up for myself and my beliefs, they call me a bitch.
When I stand up for those I love, they call me a bitch.
When I speak my mind, think my own thoughts or do things my own way, they call me a bitch.

Being a bitch means I won’t compromise what’s in my heart.
It means I live my life MY way.
It means I won’t allow anyone to step on me.
When I refuse to tolerate injustice and speak against it, I am defined as a bitch.

The same thing happens when I take time for myself instead of being everyone’s maid, or when I act a little selfish. It means I have the courage and strength to allow myself to be who I truly am and won’t become anyone else’s idea of what they think I “should” be. I am outspoken, opinionated and determined. I want what I want and there is nothing wrong with that!

So try to stomp on me, try to douse my inner flame, try to squash every ounce of beauty I hold within me. You won’t succeed. And if that makes me a bitch, so be it. I embrace the title and am proud to bear it.

BITCH is actually an acronym. It stands for:

Babe
In
Total
Control of
Herself

And for:

Beautiful
Intelligent
Talented
Charming
Hell of a Woman

As well as for:

Beautiful
Individual
That
Can
Handle anything

So, which one are you? Go ahead and embrace one. And the next time someone calls you a bitch, smile and say thank you.

Thanks to cousin Soo for sending me the above bitch stuff.